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    The only mistake that you two have made is not staying in the very place where you met. Chi-town FTW (also Happy...

americanmailorderbride wrote: I know that’s not a very romantic way of thinking about this anniversary, but I’m a realist. So is Ross. We don’t do the whole, “OMG I’d die without you” stuff. It’s not our bag. But it doesn’t diminish our love in any way. I guess the lesson to take from this is, “You’ll be ok. We’ll all be ok. No matter what.” A friend in college was once told by a guy she was dating, “I don’t ‘need’ you, I ‘want’ you.” She cried for days. [edit: I feel like I should add that this guy basically lived in a tent and all of his ‘possessions’ probably fit in a backpack, so he had a very clear definition of ‘need’, so it doesn’t sound as cold as it might otherwise.] sigh Erin/Ross: glad you two found each other. Happy anniversary, whenever it is ;-)

americanmailorderbride wrote:

I know that’s not a very romantic way of thinking about this anniversary, but I’m a realist. So is Ross. We don’t do the whole, “OMG I’d die without you” stuff. It’s not our bag. But it doesn’t diminish our love in any way.

I guess the lesson to take from this is, “You’ll be ok. We’ll all be ok. No matter what.”

A friend in college was once told by a guy she was dating, “I don’t ‘need’ you, I ‘want’ you.”

She cried for days.

[edit: I feel like I should add that this guy basically lived in a tent and all of his ‘possessions’ probably fit in a backpack, so he had a very clear definition of ‘need’, so it doesn’t sound as cold as it might otherwise.]

sigh

Erin/Ross: glad you two found each other.

Happy anniversary, whenever it is ;-)